English Grammar: Look at it like Suggestions for Communicating

For those of you new English language learners who are very frustrated with English grammar don't worry because most native speakers can't stand learning and can't properly use grammar.  Sure you should have a great grasp on grammar if you want to be a writer, scholar, or working professional in a country where English is the first language, but if not then don't get hung up on all of the grammar rules.  Some new language learners get so hung up on grammar and following the rules that they give up on communicating.  This is one pitfall that I urge all of my students to avoid.

Sure grammar is great because it organizes language and puts reason behind every small action, but that doesn't mean that you can't play with the language a little.  It also doesn't mean that people won't understand you if you make a few grammar mistakes with you speaking or writing.  For instance, I just made a couple of big no-nos by using two double negatives in consecutive sentences.  Any English teacher, including myself, would tell you that double negatives are a poor use of English grammar, unless of course you're using them as a stylistic choice, or if you want to play with the language.  Play with the language, and have fun with communication, because in the end the most important thing is that you communicate and articulate yourself in an understandable way.

Put yourself in the shoes of a student in today's society.   If someone put an English grammar text book in front of you and told you to complete exercises to improve your English would you be excited? Would you eagerly jump to the task and enjoy every second of it? Of course not.  You might do it because you have to, but you probably wouldn't consider it fun.  The bottom line is this: Grammar is there, and it's not going anywhere, but knowing grammar does not mean that you know how to or have the courage to communicate.  Speak, listen, read, and write.  Grammar can always be learned, corrected and perfected, but you have to start with the courage and desire to communicate.